来自曾经挣扎的心灵

征得该位朋友的同意,我将其英文原文适当缩减后发表在这里. 我要谢谢这位朋友的奉献和关爱的心,愿这样的美好祝愿能够启发大家,帮助大家,也希望更多的中外朋友到这里,以及我们的患友会继续交流, 秉承我们开设这样一个平台来"大家帮助大家"的宗旨.

"Dear doctor, I just want to say hello and thank you for your encouraging words and patience to listen to me last time I visited you. You probably can never realize the enormous impact a doctor"s encouraging words may have on a patient." 北京大学第六医院双相障碍马燕桃

"I vividly remember when I recalled with sorrow and tears what led to my being struck with mental sickness, you reminded me with a very peaceful tone what a rich experience a seemingly depressing sickness may prove to be if I learn to look at it from a positive perspective. That was a very important and morale-boosting lesson you gave me last time."

"The psychotherapy you have introduced into your plan to treat me is also very reassuring and greatly raised my expectations for a full recovery, because I found the psychotherapy, or talk therapy, was very helpful for calming me and restoring my mental sanity. I believe, as you have also said, it will play an even bigger role in the long-term treatment of the problem."

"Over the past days, I have generally been doing quite well, having lowered my ambitions for life and focuing very much on some very specific tasks or housechores. What is most important, I have put an end to the old struggling mentality and have learned to be at peace with myself and the past happenings."

"I remember before this I always kept the mentality to struggle with the disease, hoping to "fight it off" and demonstrate to other people, in one way another, that I am a mentally sound person. That has proved to be a wrong way of dealing with the problem. Now I have learned to accept the fact and am groping the way to avoid the traps which might trigger the recurrence of the problem. "

朋友，当您读完这样真诚的的读白以后，希望也把自己的感动和感悟留下来，为了所有曾经痛苦和正在痛苦的心，让我们来构建支撑自我的天空